Autism or ADHD

My husband and I got a new bed for our daughter.  It will also have a rock wall attached and a lounge area underneath.  We think it will suit her needs more.  We are both a bit excited about it.  It’s the different things that excite you when you are an adult.  My husband metContinue reading “Autism or ADHD”


I was going to post yesterday, but I was mentally exhausted.  My daughter was a handful and I actually ended up having a meltdown.  Luckily I was able to recognize it before it got worse and listened to relaxing music on my noise cancelling headphones in a quieter area.  My daughter is 5 years old. Continue reading “Ella”

Happy Holidays!

Today I have been very tired. With my health issues I never know day to day how tired I will be, but it has been awhile so I decided I needed to get on and post. I hope you all had good Holiday no matter how you celebrate. My husband was able to have ChristmasContinue reading “Happy Holidays!”


The last post I talked about dating relationships and in the this post I will talk about it again as I paint the picture to how I got married.  In 2004 I graduated from college.  I came home from college I took a course at a community college.  Then I got a job as aContinue reading “Marriage”


So today I want to talk about a subject have seen a lot in some of the online Autistic groups online I joined. The topic of dating relationships comes about a fair amount. Since getting my diagnosis I have learned a lot about dating relationships and how it pertains to my past and this postContinue reading “Relationships”

Happy Thanksgiving!

Hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving. Thanksgiving was a little different this year for us. My husband had to work and I was responsible for making a whole Thanksgiving dinner. It was just my husband, daughter, and I this year due to the pandemic. I did miss seeing more family. Making a whole dinner basicallyContinue reading “Happy Thanksgiving!”


When I was diagnosed with Autism I also got diagnosed with ADHD- Inattentive. I remember filling out the paperwork and was worried if I answered a certain way they would not diagnose me as Autistic and instead say I just had ADHD. Since being diagnosed I realized I can’t hide what I might have becauseContinue reading “ADHD-INATTENTIVE”

New found “me”

I was officially diagnosed with ASD and ADHD-inattentive in September of this year.  Let me give you a bit of the story about how I realized I was Autistic.  At 37 my daughter was diagnosed as being Autistic.  She was only 2 years old and I will go into more depth on her in otherContinue reading “New found “me””


Hello and welcome to my new blog. Let me introduce myself. I am Mary and I am 40 years old and was just diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder, as well as Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder- Inattentive. I also have auto immune disorders and other health issues. I haven been married for almost 15 years andContinue reading “Welcome”

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